When you are going through a struggle like Lupus I think asking a question like why? isn’t helpful. I never have asked why, I have always said why not me? I believe I was given this disease to help others and explain to the world that Lupus is. You could drive yourself crazy asking yourself “Why this disease?” and “Why me?”. I think the better question to ask is what? As in “What can I do to help myself?” or more importantly “What can I do to help others through this hard time they are going through?” I believe people are given challenges and struggles that they are able to handle. Waking up each day and fighting with yourself and wondering isn’t going to help you in any way. Waking up each day and fighting and working towards a goal whatever it may be is what is going to get you through the hard times and what is going to keep you going.